(this post is continued from the previous)
most people desperately want to be like other people. they want other people to think well of them, to approve of them. they want to behave in a way they believe is expected of them. this need to conform is so strong in most people that it can override reason.
people just have to stop this. its shit basically. i want to be you and you want to be me. will we ever be good enough? it will never end. it just keeps growing. when i get what i want i'll just want something else after that. comparison had just got to stop. we are what we are. that is a fact that will never change. one can go change his or her looks and end up looking entirely different. but deep down inside nothing changes.
so what if you are better looking or that you are so damn smart? that doesn't mean that you are way up there all high and mighty.
enough already.
it took me a long time not to judge myself through someone else's eyes.
jerine